The most difficult days I had as a pastor each year were Mothers Day and Fathers Day. I just didn't have anything to relate to and narrative is so important in a sermon. It was worse with my dad than with my mom but I still drew a blank with both of them in talking about experiences. I was in my mom's first family and raised pretty much by my grandmother. As she got older we were closer, but just not the traditional things most of you talk about. Never had a story book read to me. Her thing was definitely not cooking or other household stuff. We didn't have prayer time. My dad was even worse. I was just a toddler when they divorced and I can count on one hand probably the times I saw him from the divorce until I was grown and MJ was born. In his old age he moved to Lebanon and faithfully attended the church I pastored so those final years were pretty good. Lois had a little more time with him because they al...
On this Father’s Day I want to pay homage to several men I have known over the years. So thankful for Christian men. Recently Milan and I were watching the Gaither program on PBS and Gordon Mote, this extremely talented totally blind singer and pianist, sang a song he wrote about a church janitor who came in each night and cleaned the church and had his own prayer meeting with the Lord using a prayer list he found on the pastor's desk. He sang about this janitor who didn't have to be "up front to get attention, he just wanted to work behind the scenes, doing what he could do best, emptying the trash, dusting the pews, so that others could come and worship the next day. It really touched my heart as I thought about the different men who worked at the Oakland Church behind the scenes, not seeking any glory or credit for themselves but just so the rest of us had a nice clean place to worship. I thought about my very special brother-in-law, Bill who spent so many hours in ...